「如果你們不悔改,你們都要同樣喪亡。」
《路加福音》記載,有些人看到有人遭受殘忍的對待,以為這是他們犯罪後的懲罰。但是耶穌說:「你們以為這些加里肋亞人,比其他所有的加里肋亞人更有罪,纔遭此禍害嗎?不是的。我告訴你們:如果你們不悔改,你們都要同樣喪亡。」(路13:1-3)
疫症嚴重蔓延全球,很多人因為身體無法抵抗病毒而病倒甚至死亡。原來罪也是一樣,自從罪惡這個嚴重的傳染病進入了世界,也傳遍了人類社會。罪也會像病毒一樣變種,以層出不窮的方式引誘人類,令無數的靈魂喪亡。
要抵抗病毒,我們可能還要等待疫苗。但是,抵抗罪惡束縛所需要的恩竉,則早已為我們預備妥當,只要我們接受聖洗、勤領聖事便可獲得。
我患病,或者因別人所做的事而受苦,自己很容易知道;但如果是我把病傳給別人,或者別人因我的大小罪而受苦,我們卻往往未必會察覺。
所以預防勝於治療。如果我能把握天主所賜的恩寵,善用自己的言語、行為,時常祈禱和勤領聖事,不但能盡量避免自己犯罪、避免別人因我的緣故而犯罪,甚至有可能幫助到那些正在傷害別人的人悔改。
我日夕都設法避開傷害身體的病疫的風險,但我同時有沒有重視避開傷害靈魂的病疫呢?

反思:

看到別人的過犯,我有沒有驕傲地認為自己就是義人呢?這時,我是用言語在背後傷害他,還是用愛德幫助他悔改呢?
我渴望陪伴在聖體內的主耶穌嗎?我是否願意用悔改的眼淚為耶穌洗腳,安慰因我的罪過而傷心難過的耶穌聖心呢?
今日禱告:
願光榮歸於父、及子、及聖神,起初如何,今日亦然,直到永遠,亞孟。
見證分享:
Ada (香港)
從改變自己開始
時間過得真快,我今年已經六十二歲,領洗了四十年,不過這麼多年來,我都把重心放在生活各種東西上面,一直都只是個「星期日教友」。
前兩年退休了,兒女都出來工作了,我覺得是時候找回我的信仰,再次與天主親近!於是這兩年我積極參加不同的靈修小組,努力地找天主!
在這兩年的靈修祈禱中,我常常跟主耶穌說,和老公一起很不開心,我無法接受他做的事,真的很想離開他!他生意失敗已經是二十多年前的事,之後又賭股票欠下一身債,這麼多年來還是不負責任。沒有給家裡費用之餘,還要我幫他還信用咭,家裡大小事務都落在我一個人身上,還不時對我呼呼喝喝,說是我自找的!我覺得老公一點都不愛惜我。
佢最近失業,沒了收入,就經常跟我要錢,除了生活費還要幫他還債,我真的很生氣!我很不明白,為甚麼會有個這樣的老公!我不斷向天主祈求,希望天主可以改變他,但天主好像沒有聽到我的聲音….
前兩個星期,我參加了一個工作坊,裡面都是我祈禱小組的一班弟兄姊妹。當天分組討論的主題,是「寬恕」。感謝聖神給我勇氣,我勇敢說出了我無法寬恕老公的事。當我分享完之後,組員的回應讓我愣住了。有人說我應該要感恩,因為我還有能力施予,又有人提我「施比受更有福」。我第一個反應是怎麼他們講得好像是我錯一樣,養妻活兒不是男人的責任嗎?怎麼老公可以置身事外,令我這麼痛苦!但再想一想,我跟這班弟兄姊妹一直都是真誠相待,他們沒理由替我老公講話的。我才開始放低自己,謙卑下來,看看其實自己是否也要改變。
我問自己,二十幾年來,我有沒有溫柔的對待老公呢?我有沒有鼓勵他?或勸告過他?或者平心靜氣的跟他討論?終於我明白了,一個充滿埋怨、仇恨的人又怎會做到呢!
現在我決心改變自己對老公的態度,以前的我,一看到他做些不順眼的事,我就會馬上罵他。現在我會控制自己嘴巴,想想主耶穌會想我怎樣做,然後才回應。原來經過這個步驟,我發現自己比以前溫純了,講話的語氣變得令老公容易接受,而他也多聽了我的意見!大家相處更融洽,家庭和諧了,連兒女都感受到!
原來能夠施予真的是一份福氣!感謝聖神的啟發,謝謝弟兄姊妹的鼓勵!這份覺醒讓我明白,只有改變自己才能影響別人。同樣,善待家人就是善待自己。
經过反省, 明白生活態度是要寬鬆才对,即是不責罵, 減少埋怨, 和氣些对家人, 事情便会轉变得有生機和改進
謝謝這位姊妹的真誠分享。求主赐我悔改的心,学習这位姊妹改变自己对人的態度,學習主耶稣的宽恕和憐悯。亞孟。❤🙏🙏
疫症是可怕,但它带给我一些好處,我可以聽到廣東活道理,望中文彌撒,聽了很多神父的避静講道,灵修幫助豐富。
多谢Ada 的分享,我绝对同意。
我罪大惡極,表示我真心悔改,我要用舌为耶稣洗脚。
求仁慈的天主,赦免我的罪,保守我,助我犯罪。
謝謝Ada真誠的分享﹗願意放下自己,寬恕最親近的人,是很需要天主的恩寵﹗您的見證分享,也讓自己反省平時對家人的態度。祈求天主憐憫,讓我悔改,消滅我的罪惡﹗阿孟﹗
很感謝Ada姐妹的分享。我的婚姻關係與她有很多類似的地方,她的勇氣,她的順服,讓我得到鼓勵!
Ada, 多謝你分嚮, 也給了我很多鼓勵, 因為我已59歲, 但信仰方面仍很弱, 仍在尋找階段! 施予真的是一份福氣!我絕對認同, 但我也想多講一佢, 某些人的性格是食住上的, 我不會盲目去施, 這只是好心做壞事, 就如放縱小孩不等於愛他們!
🙏🙏天主 求你洗淨我的過犯 消除我的罪孽 因為我認清了我的罪過。天主 求你給我再造一顆純潔的心 在我五內注入堅強的精神 我要引導惡人走上你的道路 罪人也要歸依祢🙏🙏詠51:4 5 12 15
我真的渴望陪伴在聖體內的主耶穌,我也願意用悔改的眼淚為耶穌洗腳,安慰因我的罪過而傷心難過的耶穌聖心!因此我反省到我只管自己的事,切願善盡本份,很多時疏忽別人的感受,忘記了愛德是安慰主的最佳禮物。我要悔改走近主的聖心!
多謝Ada 豐富的分享,施比受更能獲上主豐厚的恩賜。常祈禱🙏🏼、睇聖經、祈求聖神降臨我們頭上,讓自己能懂得分辨錯對和是非,怎樣去關心我們身旁有需要的人,同時自己也常常反省、悔改,再次穿上潔白如雪的衣裳,站在主的隊伍內。主佑大家🙏🏼
天主,我狂妄自大,得罪的多,寬恕的少。求祢讓我放下驕傲,真實地與她相處。
謝謝Ada無私的分享.是的,先改變自己對別人的負面態度,得著會是很多及很正面的呢!
剛才我在這兩句話反覆思量:[我日夕都設法避開傷害身體的病疫的風險,但我同時有沒有重視避開傷害靈魂的病疫呢?]說得很真實.平日自以為是義人,對別人的行為看不過眼,只顧去比較自己如何清高,為此而沾沾自喜,但又沒有以身作側,或怕事沒有去循循善誘有問題的近人回改,任由他們一錯再錯.而自己在靈修方面仍未站穩住腳,在疫情下與天主的關係又更疏離.這樣便很容易被魔誘而不自覺,容易犯下大小二罪.
期盼能在將臨期常思己過,謙抑自下,悔改更新;多研讀聖言,活出基督的精神,為主作福傳;有機會便去辦修和聖事,朝拜聖體,勤領或神領聖體聖事;以同理心去憐憫人,為世人祈禱.每天改一些,終有成功的一日.
多謝Ada的分享,善待自己才能善待家人,大家共勉之!
我要努力去避開損害靈魂的病疫🙏🙏🙏
最後加入了信友的分享錄音,我很欣賞信友們勇敢作出分享,在生活中見証著與主的關係和改變,主佑大家!
我渴望陪伴在聖體內的主耶穌嗎? 这是我从来没有想过的一个问题。
基本上我好像很少渴望陪伴谁? 除了孩子小时候,我是渴望时常陪着他们的,还有当母亲年纪老迈,患了轻度老人痴呆时,却因为她远在美亚美,我身在加拿大,一年只能陪到她十多天, 一切都依赖在彼方的姐妹代为照顾,那份悬念,是不能形容的。
但为什么我从来没有想过圣体内的主耶稣会渴望我能陪伴他呢? 是不是我觉得他是无所不在,所以不需要拘泥于地点; 又因为他是时常与我们同在,所以我什么时候想起他,就可以跟他联络呢!
但想深一层,我是否太 “奉旨”,缺少了一份尊重。
对不起, 主耶穌。 求你时常提醒我,要不时陪伴在聖體內的你!
感謝Ada無私的分享!我們每人在世的崗位都有每人的重擔。基督徒有主的恩寵可以望著十字架上的受難主耶穌,有祂陪伴我們同行、背著自己的十字架。懇切祈求聖神的帶領讓我們緩於發怒、慈悲為懷,以主耶穌基督之名寬恕他人、寬恕自己!彼此代禱!聖母始胎無原罪為我等祈🙏
感謝Ada的分享!讓我也反省自己對待家人的態度都較沒耐心,”想想耶穌會希望我怎麼做”,是很好的提醒!
多謝Ada 的分享,讓我覺醒有時別人的反應自己也有一份推動,無論負面或正面。罪的推動,原來有時自己在不以為意時也有份參與推動。主,感謝你,讓我今天有這份覺醒。主,感謝讚美你!
很對,只有改變自己才可以影響他人。寛容善待家人就等於善待自己,至少不會傷肝。而且,照顧好自己,不令家人擔心,才有能力照顧他人。
感謝主, 讓我反省愛主愛人的不足。
天主,我太對不起祢了!今天是聖母無染原罪節,我不去望彌撒卻跑去shopping 。總是把祢放在最後一個,我要改!要改過!請給我力量,請幫助我抵抗世俗的種種誘惑,我要全心歸向祢!請寬恕我的罪!
疫症可怕,但它对我有些好處,我可以望中文彌撒,聽到很多廣東话道理,灵修幫助很大。
我同意Ada 的意見,多谢她的分享。
我是大罪人,为証明我真心恢改,我要用舌洗耶稣的腳。
求仁慈的天主,赦免我的罪,幇助我改过,保守我,免我再犯罪。
今天的講解,使我有另外的感受。
寛恕與悔改 其實可說是相對相等的。
如果我不能寬恕別人,那我的悔改也不能完滿!
主聖神
我懇切祈求 袮速來助領我 🙏😇🙏
Sorry Jesus for judging others and not seeing our own weaknesses. Lord, help me to pray for the others instead of criticizing them.
謝謝Ada 姊妹的分享 !
施予真的是一份福氣 但我們沒有領悟,就像主無限的向我們施予,我們沒有感恩 !
懇求聖神幫助 讓我每天都能有施予的精神 !
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